Driving A Prius Is Not An Excuse To Be An Asshole
I’ll let the woman’s actions speak for herself, but suffice to say, her holier-than-thou attitude combined with her foul mouth and aggressive behavior are all a prime example of how not to confront a person about anything. Her main beef; the diesel truck had parked downwind of her car, supposedly floating the diesel fumes over to her car. And of course, she just happens to drive a Toyota Prius, which many (including myself) consider to be the smuggest segment of car drivers in this country, if not the entire world. I’m sorry, but just because you drive a fuel-efficient car/hybrid/EV does NOT give you the right to lecture and make demands the rest of us. This is still America, damnit.
The diesel truck owner is quite calm about the whole thing, and in the video description he even admits that A) his truck is a bit of a gas guzzler and B) he bought it because he can go biodiesel. So this guy isn’t some ignorant redneck, and though he works in an office, he also says he lives on a farm…which is where this huge trucks belong, more often than not. However, on the same token, I found it odd that this guy decided to park two spots away from a pair of Prii, and managed to have his camera at the ready when this woman started verbally assaulting him and his family. I’m not saying he deserved it…but there is a question of motives here that I can’t quite resolve.
The whole situation really disgusts me, because instead of having a civilized conversation, we get two people arguing over something as simple as turning a car on and off. There are better ways to handle such a situation. She could have had a polite discussion, moved her car (which was not parked in a spot) to another location, or a number of other moves that would have been less-bitchy. Instead, she gets up in his face and makes outlandish, and frankly offensive, statements about the driver and his family. It is like someone took every annoying stereotype about hippies/Prius drivers/socialists and rolled them up into one very mean person.
A Better Way To Go About It
Last week many parts of Connecticut were still without power, and many gas stations had lines that stretched for many blocks. I personally waited over half an hour to fill up, and while waiting I noticed that pretty much everybody else who was waiting had their car on, despite creeping just a few feet every five minutes or so. I wasn’t so much bothered by the fumes as I was by the idea that these people were wasting gas and money. I live in a cash-strapped city with a working-class population, and I know that every dollar counts these days.
So what did I do? I struck up conversation with my neighbors (GASP!) and calmly explained to them that sitting here, idling for a half hour, was wasting more fuel than turning the engine on and off every few minutes to move up a few feet. Several people thanked me for the advice and followed it. Others politely disagreed, and one fellow actually got upset that I had to audacity to suggest I shut off his car. It was delicious irony when his car actually ran out of gas while he was still a few cars back from the pump (though I still helped him push his car, because that is how homeboy rolls.)
I’m not sure I made any real converts to the anti-idling crowd, and at best I imagine I saved a gallon or two of fuel between the people who followed my advice. But I also didn’t end up on YouTube looking like a complete douchebag. And there is even the slightest chance that I actually got a person (or two) to reconsider how they manage their fuel consumption.
That was how I handled a similar incident. Have you ever found yourself in a situation like this? How did/would you handle it if you were in this woman’s position?